"Yup, Americans are going to do whatever they want, whenever they want."
So, this is true and exactly correct IF you add one word to it (right in front of "Americans")----------"some"
"Some Americans"
But, that's because some Americans are selfish, know nothing, aggrandizing, self delusional arrogant (did I say Ignorant yet?) "know-it-alls" which is why I nearly PUKE every time I hear somebody try and claim "American exceptionalism". It's PURE unadulterated propaganda and GARBAGE. WE are no better (or no worse) than ANY other peoples!
But, your problem is all3, (for many of us) is that you don't seem to accept the amount of influence the POTUS (right or wrong remember respect??) has on his flock! And I use that word purposely. Because, it's possible that NO President (with the possible exception of #7) has had such a messianic influence over his "people" than this one. MOST of them are truly his sheep!