Site staff has to manualy come in and review the post and remove it if they choose. Often, if the post merits removal, a forum ban will be given to the poster.
People don't get redlined very often in this forum. I think I've done it twice in two years, and neither were in this forum. My advice would be to take it easy and ignore posts you view as untolerable. Get a feel for the way people interact here before you get all emotional. You are far and away the most sensitive poster that has come through here in a while. Given enough time, you'll shed that off.