I'm not going to speak for moy, but I will speak for myself. I'm not making excuses for the GOP. The Tea Party has done more harm to the political process in Washington than anything or anybody else (including Obama), and Boehner hasn't had the balls to stand up to them for fear of retribution from their deep pocketed supporters. So that's all on them.
But as to Obama . . . do you think he's handled dealing with a difficult GOP the best way that he could? In others words, is "Well, **** you then!!!" a sign of great leadership, and acceptable to you as one of his supporters?