biz, regardless of whether or not you share the reason of what makes you an ***, or a racist, or a sexist, or a homophobe, it doesn't mean you aren't one of those things.
Except I'm not any of those things in the first place.
I think you (and probably some others too) assume way too much about me, and then you base other assumptions on THOSE assumptions you already made until finally you THINK you know so much about me and you're wrong about nearly all of it.
If you want to have a decent discussion rather than having me correct all the things you get wrong all the time, you might want to try taking what I say for its face value rather than assuming it means something else. You might also consider that each thing I say is within its own context and is not related to anything else I say or my other opinions on other topics, because unlike some people, I decide my opinion on each subject independent of my other viewpoints.